Ways to move on..

Im back! Well, atleast for now.. I've been to lazy to blog recently. Actually I dont have any topics on mind to tell.
Today while hanging out with my flatmate and our girlfriend "yummy" I found a good topic to write about.
Every each one of us had their hearts broken atleast once.. But in every failed relationship the last thing that you would go through is the pain of having to move on. At first we're in denial that the relationship is over. Still wondering and reminiscing those times that you were together, but what we dont realize is that everytime we think about those good old days we're just hurting ourselves, we are depriving ourselves from seeing the good thing about the end of it.

Most women, in so many cases, tend to go back from were the relationship has started ( specially when we were caught unaware that the relationship will suddenly end when infact what we are expecting from it is the other way around), questioning ourselves what went wrong? Hoping that soon our prince charming will come back realizing that he was so wrong and he made a wrong decision by leaving us.. I find it stupid for us girls that we think that way.

Below are some ways to help us from passing that moving on stage.. Hope this might help.

1. Incline yourself to music - Take voice lesson or buy musical intsrument that will help you to pre-occupy yourself. Avoid those songs that will make you remember of him.

2. Go to the Gym - Im sure we're all pretty mad about what had happened so take all that madness to the gym, or attend yoga class and make yourself look fabulous.

3. Business- If you have enough dough to splurge, then its a wise decision to enter the world of business.. Just be careful in choosing what business to put up.

4.Work- If you dont have enough dough to put a business of your own, Im pretty sure that you're not a bum. Concentrate on your job, look for some other ways that will give you extra earnings. Now, if you're, then I think this is the perfect time for you to look for one.

5.Go out- Go shopping, (Its a girl bestfriend and the most effective way to take yourself out from the state of misery). Spend time with your girlfriend, take your comfy shoes, catch a movie or have dinner.. Or do a makeover..

6. Fly- in our case( flight attendant).. aside from shopping, flying more is one of the most effective way, seeing other places buys out some time, taking us away from thinking about the relationship and we earn more by flying more..

7. Go Decorating- Buy furnitures, or paint your room. You dont wanna be stuck to the same room where all you can see from every corner of it is the face of your ex-boyfriend. Come on! you dont wanna end up feeling that feel of wanting to crawl back in to your bed because youre not feeling to well..

8. Blogging- Too tired of hiding all the pain? well maybe its time for you to put all the words together and have it post to the whole internet universe.. You'll feel better I assure you that.


These are all the things that I can think of to help us girls to atleast lighten what we feel. remeber there are always benefits from moving on.

If eveything on my list fails you, Maybe its time for you to list down all the positive effects of that failed relationship to you then heal yourself by looking at it. Remember, your friends can tell you what to do but in the end it will always be you who'll do the decision making..